For many of us in the neurodivergent community, masking is something we’ve done for as long as we can remember.
😶🌫️ Pretending to be “okay” when we’re overwhelmed.
🙃 Forcing eye contact because it’s expected.
😬 Hiding stims or suppressing our natural rhythms just to avoid judgment.
💡 What is Masking?
Masking is when neurodivergent people camouflage their traits in order to fit in or avoid stigma. While it can sometimes help us navigate certain situations, long-term masking can be exhausting and harmful to our well-being.
💔 Why It’s Hard
- Drains mental & emotional energy
- Can lead to burnout or shutdowns
- Makes us feel disconnected from our authentic selves
🌱 Steps Toward Unmasking
Unmasking is a process — not something you have to do all at once. Some gentle starting points include:
- ✅ Allowing yourself to stim without apology
- 🗣️ Setting boundaries where you can
- 🌌 Spending time in safe spaces (like NeuroCosm!) where you don’t have to perform
✨ Final Thoughts
The universe is vast — and just like the cosmos, there’s no one way to exist. You don’t have to shrink yourself to fit into someone else’s orbit.
🌌 NeuroCosm is a space where you can unmask, rest, and just be.